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And how likely is it that their calls for leisure activities will be greeted with respect, rather than disdain? January 29, January 30, July 17, March 22, March 22, Eytan is a pretentious English major whose rant-laden sarcastic tirades occasionally include budget travel tips and other international nonsense. You can follow his every narcissistic word on Facebook or Twitter. Canada is pretty under the influence of the American dream — we share similar working hours, lack of vacation, massive student loans etc.
Koreans and other asian cultures place a lot of importance on saving face. And then with saving face comes taking pride in their lives. They may take pride in their career and in their family and so forth. Travel is meant to enhance and to learn new things, not to escape. I got addicted to all work, no play in the US, so now I am the least vacationing person in my department in Russia — still dont know what to do with those 5 weeks off. Stress and money is the American Dream. For example, every year, my mother calls me up to tell me about her latest purge, how spacious her house looks, and how free she feels—every year.
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Iconic Tour. This article is an updated version of a previously published story. Trending Now. Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak: Get off Facebook. Follow Us. They are things like love, trust, companionship, safety, a sense of possibility, etc. And we can also get into the real mud of our souls — the why of our desires — I want that because I am afraid. I want it because I feel inadequate.
I want it because I am jealous. I want it because I need to feel desirable. There and then, that is where the soul breaks free, if you dare. You nailed several things here. It is meaning, not money. But when it flows from meaning, then we are in harmony within ourselves and with our work. Excellent post. I live and work with a year-old graduate of a top university, where he was a varsity athlete. This boy has lived a very structured life, in which the goals and schedule were set by other people, and he had no reason to question them. Several people tell me I should create more specific, quantifiable goals.
Your post reminds me that I should make sure these are on a ScoreBoard that actually matters to me. Your post is timely for me, Nilofer, as we are both very visible leaders. I am experiencing the need to change course. There is that first inner knowing and inner truth, then there is the public declaration. What is difficult is the change. That is not the issue. The issue is having the strength and perseverance when you are in the middle of the shift.
No one tells you how clumsy you will feel, no one tells you that it is hard to command clarity when you are lost in the midst of discovery. If we look around us, the world is creating a new set of rules — from business to government… nothing is really the same. I write specifically about the process of the change along with the changes themselves with the hope it helps others to realize the bumpy ride is just the bumpy ride, not a sign to quit and go back.
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Hope it emboldens you in your journey …. What I experience and take away from this post is in essence the difference between knowing and living. We all know that we should balance our lives, and that quality of living should be considered when making life choices. Somehow we have to suffer pain, injustice, public and private humiliation to become who we are. However, this is one of the most rewarding personal growth experiences I have ever encountered, and as you and some of the commentators rightly highlight, some of the most challenging moments of our lives.
Sometimes it feels like you are learning to be an engineer and repairing the rocket engine during the launch phase. Overwhelming sometimes falls well short as a descriptor. The funniest thing emerges from this growth process for me.
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It is the indisputable realisation that organisations are indeed living entities too. They experience all the things we do as the grow, adapt and mature without the benefit of a singular spokesman. I thank you for this and I hope that this message will be read by thousands of influential people who will engage their brains, emotional intelligence and situational awareness and apply that to their lives and business.
Organizations are living organisms. Like an atom. Measurable progress is so important, but it can result in what I think of as stage-craft rather than a life — we have so many measurement techniques and pressures to prove ourselves through numbers I think a cultural backlash is in store, eventually. There is more than measurement, its just difficult to know how to use the tools of measurement to help us get on with life in a meaningful way. Slightly rambling comment, but the post as with so many of these , struck me. Lovely ramble Peter.
By the way, I thought my post was a bit rambly also. Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted. I also appreciate the push toward continuous versus either or measures. Coming back to both posts 24 hours later allows me to see that this was partially correct. His is more directly focussed on economics, yours on more personal aspects, but they both look broadly at the same issue from different angles.
This partially explains why I have time to write long blog comments, but more importantly gives me a who,e different set of prejudices about personal growth vs economic growth. Mt bottom line is…. Businesses need to keep turning a profit, individuals need income greater than outgoings. Now, I know that your argument is rather more subtle than I may have portrayed it, and that you acknowledge the need for quantitative measures.
But in our sporting life, our hobby life, we can be that indulgent — we can go on supporting a side that loses and loses because we have other ties. And it will work for a few, but not the many. We may sit behind desks and run Hi-Tech companies, but all we are still trying to do is get the harvest in before winter.